Much ado about nothing…

Sometimes ago my husband pissed me off and I decided to do silent treatment aka malice(in my head I did not call it malice sha, I told myself I was respecting myself 🙈)

I was ready to carry it on my head like “o ta akara” (my igbo 101 for akara seller 😁)

The Holy Spirit went through my conscience but I no gree, this was the showed me on sosha media. I wanted to still do strong head but it was too direct abeg😩👇

..Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
Ephesians 4:1 – 32 NIV

The Holy Spirit said to me. When you fail to walk in the reality of what I have called you, you are grieving me. If I have called you saved, but fail to consider yourself saved, you are grieving me.
I have called you blessed, but if you think you are not blessed yet, you are grieving me
If I say you have been made whole, but you still think you are not whole yet, you are grieving me.
If I say you are powerful, but you think you don’t have power yet, then you are grieving me.
Not doing the things that I said you should do is what it means to grieve me.

I was shocked. Before now, I thought grieving the Holy Spirit meant sinning against him or offending him. Now I know better. He is not angry. But he is concerned immensely that I am failing to see myself I he sees me.
That’s grieving the Holy Spirit… By Sunday Alabi

I saw the message and realized the issue is not even that serious but while I was stewing in anger, my thoughts were going crazy. I just jejely took back my home and peace.

Have you tried doing small strong head and the Holy Spirit came with nail and hammer?